How to enjoy anal play

Getting ready for anal sex
The best way to become acquainted with any thing anal, is by yourself. Unless you have a partner whom you trust utterly and completely it is wise to try a little anal play on your own.

The first thing to consider is the tight anal muscle designed to allow things to pass out. It is not designed to allow things in. However, the muscle can be relaxed enough to allow almost anything to pass into it.
So the biggest hurdle to get over is learning to relax the muscle.

When you are alone and won't be disturbed get a hot bath ready. Go all out to make it nice and cozy.
Toss the waterproof anal toys you bought into the tub of hot water, this will soften them up.

What should I buy? A small butt plug, slim anal dildo, slim waterproof anal vibrator, anal beads, anal lubricant, and waterproof clit massager.

Get in the tub and when ready get some erotic images in your mind. Play with your clit and get warmed up. You can use the anal vibe in your vagina to get started.

For your information - You can put anything into your vagina and then into your butt. You can not put something that has been in your butt back into your vagina. The bacteria from your butt is not compatible with the bacteria from your vagina and can cause health problems.

Once you warmed up and feeling turned on, or maybe even had a climax from massaging your clit, your ready to add the anal element.

Start with the anal beads. Hopefully you have chosen a beginner set. Lubricate the beads and your anus.
Lay in a comfortable position and begin by inserting a couple of beads. Pull them out and reinsert a couple of times. Once all the beads have been inserted, get the clit massager and give your self a good going over. This may make you orgasm.

Pull the beads out and try out the other anal toys one by one. The rest is up to you. Your goal is simply to become acquainted with the anal play. You will learn how it feels and if you like the sensations you can move onto bigger toys. 

Eventually you will need to insert a toy about the same size as a real cock. This will help you get ready for anal sex. Play with the toy and push it in and out just like the real thing.

Experiment on your own till you feel your ready to involve your partner.
Take your time and enjoy the super orgasms that can be had through anal play.